“One man in a thousand can satisfy a woman” – Mark Twain

“A lot of women make a fool out of a man. A few women make a man out of a fool.” – Mae West

Welcome to LoveLifeImproved.com!

This website is for women who do not want to make love and have not the least foggiest notion of what to do about it. Many women and marriages suffer from this.

As young women we start off gung-ho, full of love and passion. We wait for the man to satisfy us and nothing happens. After a year or so of expecting satisfaction during love making and just left up in the air, all excited, high and dry, our bodies say NO! It does not want to be built up to excitement and just left hanging there in mid air. It is a terrible feeling.

They call this condition frigid. Refusing the love advances of our husband, refusing to go through the act. Refusing to go through the excitement & frustration again. The husband is going too fast and the gal often does not even have good feelings inside.

A women needs to feel a release on the inside of herself. A vaginal orgasm. Once she finds that feeling she will want to make love. And the husband wants to help her; he does not want to be shut off. He wants to know what the matter is. Can you imagine his anguish at not being able to satisfy her & not knowing why not? He loves her. He wants to help too.

So, for frigidity in women, read below for the cure.

Ellie’s Heroine and Inspiration, Mae West:

Okay, gals, let’s get with it.

Let’s keep the men adoring us and us respecting ourselves so we can be on that high pedestal on which we belong.

We are going to make love in the ideal way. We are going to be perfect women or striving to be that way, anyway.

For those of us that are frigid, there is no need to be. Here is the secret:

First, abstain from intercourse for two weeks.

Then set aside a half an hour or so in your day when there is nothing to interrupt or distract you-the children are napping, etc. and you will not be disturbed.

Feel yourself with your finger (or hot dog) in the vagina area, careful not to touch the clitoris, until orgasm is reached. Going at your own speed, within a time or two, you will find that, indeed, you can have an orgasm so deep and satisfying within you. It is extremely important not to bump on to the clitoris at all, as this stimulates a different or superficial orgasm, which blocks out the feelings in the area that you want. Refrain from this masturbating-type area. Learn to use one of the best assets you have-your sexual appeal. Learn to feel your sexual desire deep within you (actually, there are a lot of sensitive feelings right around the opening of the vagina. Once you have achieved this release and know you can do it – “Aha! You are a woman after all!”

Transfer this feeling onto your mate’s penis as you make love. Communication is the key. Lower your pride and talk to him, tell him where you are in your sexual hung-upness, communicate with him. He is your once most beloved thing in the world. Granted, he may not be now, but that is only because you, like all of us in our womanly ways, have lied to him, made him ignorant. He wants to satisfy you! So now he must slow down, practice rare and extreme restraint while you learn, something like learning to read music or cough or sneeze, to come or reach fulfillment in normal womanly way. The way God intended. It may take a year to perfect your coupling together, but you will have a bond so strong as to make you proud, a shield against intruding other women, an armament against marital discord, plus you will have made a real man out of your fool.

You see this is not a new problem; it’s been going on for a lot of years.

How Masters and Johnson ever came up with the idea that two orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, are one and the same, is beyond me.

So, come on, gals, give it a try. It ain’t easy, but you know you’re doing the right thing.

Ellen (Mrs. Lloyd) Keeland
Artist, Author, Musician and Chainsaw Carver